I love this piece for so many reasons. I don’t for a moment believe that the way I have loved has been flawless. Far from it. But I do realise this and often wonder about the whole ‘lockdown’ on the one you love bit. Or the way people love ‘beautiful’ *cringe*. Or the right way to self love, without harming others in the process. You’ve touched upon so many things here that I didn’t even realise were related. But wow! I’m so glad I found this.