Absolutely! As you read on you will find how I came to that on my own, in my own time, which I believe is the key. No matter how many times people tell us ‘good sense’ it isn’t until a certain time that it sinks in. Sometimes it takes longer, especially with your first heartbreak. And I believe that it’s important to let people do it their own way, no matter how ridiculous it may seem. A lot of thoughts we feel through breakups are not logical, but we still feel it. And this is me being completely honest about many of those thoughts. Were they the right things to think? Probably not, but hey, feelings don’t always get that. That’s what this piece is about.